cainKuri

20221015

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Have a good nigth. Hope peace and rest reach your heart tonigth. I'm surprised on how things turn out.

Leasson I learned

It's not the same to say :

I FEEL you are using me.

Then to say

I'm feeling used.

I heard again "the way you talk to me". Bamefuly, acusing and pointing at me.

So I ask... What is this way I talk to you? Is the entonation? It's the words I use. Then she said she doesn't know but also it's the expression of my face.

Then I'm trying to "explain" myself" that I was taking about how I feel... Somehow she in her trying to repeat what I said, she repeats words, phrases and sentences that I never said (but how she interpreted and or how she felt them)... if I tell her that i never said that... She gets angry because she felt invalidated. If I tell her that she interpreted probably in the way how she feel and not in the way I intended, she disagrees and throw me questions like "so now you know how I feel huh?, you don't know how I feel"

And then I remembered that I heard that she was taking like that about her ex.

... On anycase...

I thing I finally got why she was feeling pointed. When in my head I was only taking off myself and how I feel. Triggering is each other.

But yes, words matter. How we use them too.

20220919

Libertad Individual, Igualdad y Equidad.

Libertad Individual e Igualdad y Equidad

Libertad Individual

Aquí hay una manera fácil de entender cómo funciona la libertad.

Esta persona tomó su parte justa del pastel, desde su punto de vista, sí, es justo.

Pero afectó negativamente a otros.

Usó su libertad creando una especie de injusticia hacia los demás.

Las libertades no pueden ser utilizadas según nuestras propias voluntades individuales, ignorando las injusticias creadas para los demás.

La justicia desaparece cuando se hace daño a los demás; este pastel es un ejemplo perfecto de la mala aplicación del concepto de libertad individual.

No olvidemos nunca que nuestra libertad termina donde empieza la de los demás, nuestras acciones tienen un impacto.

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Voici une façon facile de comprendre comment la liberté fonctionne.

Cette personne a pris sa juste part de gâteau, de son point de vue oui c'est juste.

Mais a affecté les autres négativement.

Elle a utilisé sa liberté en créant une sorte d'injustice envers autrui.

Les libertés ne peuvent pas être utilisées selon nos propres volontés individuelles en se foutant des injustices créées aux autres.

La justice disparaît quand on nuit aux autres; cette tarte est un exemple parfait de mauvaise application du concept de liberté individuelle.

N'oublions jamais que notre liberté s'arrête où commence celle des autres, nos actes ont un impact.

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Igualdad y Equidad

20220918

Friendships and Plants, a social experiment in Social Media

I just woke up and I had this idea.

The context for that, is some friendships that I think I have are not the same in both ways. Maybe I'm not a plant for them, but a decoration in their garden.

I heard that friendships are like plants that you need to put water on.

The thing is, some people are like cactus and others demand more water to be a healthy plant.

All our links / friendships are different. It makes me think that even if I like diversity, I need to know my plants.

If I have a plant that suddenly doesn't fit with my watering schedule or the amount of water that I distribute to the rest of them well, it will fade. And it's okay, probably that energy should go somewhere else.

So this is the experiment I want to do.

I will unfriend everybody on my Facebook and instead of letting Meta decide by the click of a button a friend request to "be friends", how about you actually call me or video call me and tell me why you would like to be friends on Facebook with me.

I would like to be me, the one who needs to make the call... but I think the experiment doesn't work that way. If I make a friend request, people will probably click accept and not engage in any conversation.

So there you go.

Is this another way to be a digital minimalist?

If you don't even have my phone number, you may know someone who has it. And if not, probably I'm just a savage plant that grows in your garden that you won't miss.

So referring to myself, if I don't have water and I see my plants need some, I will ask the neighbors if they can help me to have some water to keep the connection with my plants.

It's my garden. My way of taking care will reflect the type of plants will flourish.

If it's too complicated and I don't have time for "this plant", because I don't understand how much water it needs (because I never really took the time to get to know this plant) well, probably it doesn't matter for the garden you want to have.

Probably I'm just a plant that I have appeared in your garden for any reason.

In the end, it's your garden, you have to put some effort to keep it as you want.

Let's start to post this on my feed.

If we don't interact with each other, then the algorithm will take care that I will not even appear in your feed. And if with time, you realize that I unfriend you, well, it means that we never really interact. It probably was too late and the plant just faded. Who knows? Some plants can come back after a season.

But I don't think I will click on accept friend request to be "friends" just because you click on a button and don't engage in a conversation. I invite you to do so.

In the end, this is my garden too.

Exploring:

Ways to accept how I fade on others.
Becoming an observer
Acknowledge the effort I need to put in for things to happen.
Value and impact of Facebook on my life.
Is Facebook really connecting me with people?

20220909

Saturn's Moon

From the black holes of memories
tectonic forces divide my reality
feelings eclipsed from the center
air consumed by the gravity of my love

I still believe there is something possible
I still believe that there is an indication
My termoreadings sense hotspots in there
seems like It reveals volcanos of ice

From the hotspot of my heart
Below the remarkable surface
I found a geiser of boiling water
exploiting into a colder heat.

Peculiars orbits of thoughts
Elliptic forces injecting energy
Bursting into the surface
I know I'm attracted to imposible things.

20220828

Todo pasa

D A

Como la luz del cielo

C G

que nos toca las miradas

Gm D

Como la boca en fuego

De tus brazos y tus besos

Como este viaje en mi cuerpo

Como el agua entre tus dedos

C G Gm D

Como el viento entre tu pelo

Así todo pasa

G Bm A G Bm A

Como en sueños

que despierto te miraba

Y te amaba en mi almohada

Todo pasa

D A Bm G D A G

Y con todas tus fuerzas te agarras

te aferras al viento del tiempo

dímelo, dímelo,

Todo pasa

Son las flores que hablan de los sueños

y los sueños de los que despierto

en la idea del amor que yo tengo

me colapsa

20220717

La journée qui s'en vient est flambant neuve par Avec pas d'casque

Oh comme il est lourd

Le temps qui s'appelle hier

Prends-le ce diamant

Dans ma tête il est pour toi

Je promets, je promets que