New Relationship Energy (NRE)
Neuroscience has shown when we first meet someone and start to fall in love, our brain produces this powerful neuro chemical cocktail that makes us feel really good. Like out of your mind good. And this effect lasts for six months up to two yeras.
Now in open relationships NRE is really important because they're trying to maintain an existing relationship alongside this new one that's basically the equivalent of a hit of meth, everytime they see their new partner.
But what does it mean for the rest of us?
For the rest of us it means that when you start dating someone it's going to feel fantastic... at first. And furthermore we have no business making life long commitments promises while we're still under the influence of NRE. Because you're not in your right mind and you can't make an informed choice.
Lesson 2
The value of informed choices. For the importance of the meaning of concepts for everyone.
Lesson 3
Relationship Expert Esther Carell tells us that the erotic energy in a relationship comes from the distance and the differences between us and the one we love. That the energy is born in that gap between you and your partner and your desire to close it and to be intimate.
Now if your partner is attached of your hip all the time, there is no distance and there will be no erotic charge.
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